Many a times it would have happened with you also that when you go to seek some help from someone, and before listening your requirements and problems, that person start talking about his issue and problems to you, it directly appears that the person is not in the mood to help you, rather that person is seeking help for himself. Even though, that person is capable enough to help you, still he would readily not help you, he would seek some request from you, he will seek your help to validate his stature and position, that person is helpless, if you not give him proper validation, it might be fake also, he will not help you. Various persons have many thing by which they can help others to make that person come out of his temporary problems, but they refute to help, because, they are under the influence of the habits not to help others but to take help from others. Those kinds of persons, even though, they have all the prosperity and means, but still they are beggar at different level. Internally they never feel that they are powerful, they may show their stature and power outside, but internally, they are living in a great scarcity. They seek your help to validate their power and capabilities. The real powerful and successful person never seeks validation of others to feel those. They know, they are strong and powerful, the temporary setback never make their thought and stature down. More than 90% persons are helpless. If you try to seek help from those kinds of persons, you will not get anything but frustration.
To feel yourself powerful and successful in your life, commit yourself to help others, not to seek help. Always seeking help from others would be very pernicious for the life. The simple method, if you want something from people, do not expect and beg, rather work for people what they want and you will get what you want. Suppose, you have some big dream and goal, and you go to someone to seek some advice, if that person is not in the position to evaluate and value your dream and goal, it is quite possible, he may deride your dream, and you may get demotivated, if you are not dogged determined person. This is not the mistake of that person; this is your mistake of choosing the wrong person to take help and advice, who is already helpless. Many persons lost their dream and could not garner the courage to think big and great, because of selecting and expecting helpless person to help them. That person never help you, rather, he takes help from you to prove his statements.
Make yourselves so strong and skillful and prosper, so that, you never need to take help from others. Commit yourself to help others not to take help from others. And you cannot help someone without helping yourself. Do not be or feel helpless at any kind of situation, help yourself and others to whom you meet as per your strength and standard. You are not taken birth here to be helpless and scrounger, you are here to be and live a life like an emperor. Recognize your strength, potential, energy and power, and awake those to live your life emphatically and help other to live their life meaningfully too.
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