Tuesday, 12 May 2015

21 Day Challenge

A person named Dvij, approached to an astrologer and asked for a way out for his wishes to be fulfilled. He complained that whenever he takes any step towards his wishes, lot of obstruction occurs and he leaves his work in between. The astrologer suggested a “UPAAY” (way out). He told that write all your wishes on a paper and go to a temple and put in the feet of an idol and repeat your wishes with faith and devotion, do this regularly for 21 days, your wishes will be fulfilled. After 21 days, again, Dvij approached and thanked astrologer for the fabulous way out started working for him. What would you say…. Blind belief.. Or some science is working behind that...! We should not forget that the ritual in religion is a science in hidden.

If you do something for 21 days continuously, you can firm any good habit or relinquish your bad habits. Working on some habit continuously for 21 days can become your second nature. You have to put your effort on any habit for 21 days without a break, after that, it will continue automatically for the rest of your life without any hurdle.
Why 21 days ….?

Because, our body, mind and senses requires minimum 21 days to form any habit. Initially, when you take steps to do it, your mind, body and senses would resist you, they will not allow you to persist, and they will give you many reasons to stop it, but refuse to listen to them. If you listen to them and try to fulfill all of the demands of your mind, body and senses, you will fall down. The demands of your uncontrolled mind, body and senses are prone to negativity, their demands make you fall down, give you miseries. 90% of miseries and unethical things take place in our life, because of the unbridled demands of the mind, body and senses.

Do not listen to their unethical and unproductive demands and waste your beautiful time and energy in the supply of that. If you ignore them for a few days, they will start listening to you. This is the correct hierarchy. They should follow you, not vice-versa. They need to accept you as a master, not a slave. This is the technique of success in any pursuit. To make your mind, body and senses accept you as a master for any habit and pursuit, it requires 21 days. You have to take care of 21 days, the rest of the life they will take care of your goals, desires and demands. These are the instruments have been gifted to you to accomplish something significant and great in your life, do not waste it, because you cannot take the 21 day challenge in your life. In 21 days you program your subconscious mind to take positive steps towards your goal.

The biggest challenge of taking the 21 day challenge, is taking the first step towards it. No obstruction or predicament is greater than taking the first step. Set your goal, decide your purpose, determine your image what you want to carve and make steps for it, take the first step with faith and determination, and you will find that something great, something significant, something valuable taking place in your life.


Do not say that I will start from tomorrow… tomorrow never comes. Put date and take this 21 days challenge to make your life better and meaningful.

Friday, 1 May 2015

Be owner to get honor

Everyone in this world wants to be respected. But very few persons get this fortune. Only countable persons get pure respect and honor. Rest people live the life of disrespect. But how to get respect..?

Simply, be owner, be the master of something important in your life, and you will get respect. What do I mean to be owner here? Here, owner does not mean that you must be owner of a company, owner of a big business or owner of some estate …. No... This is not real ownership. Many persons have it; still they live a life of disrespect. This kind of material accumulation may make you pompous and arrogant. 

An arrogant person never gets respect from anyone.

No matter what position you are holding, no matter what work you are doing, take the ownership of that, take 100% responsibility and accountability for that. This is real ownership. In such way, you become master of that, not slave. If you do not have the ownership of your activities and assignments, you are slave, and slaves never get respect. Slaves are treated as slave. Masters are treated as master. This is the way, you get self-respect, and respect from others as well. Be sure that self-respect is more important than respect from others. Many times you may be misunderstood, but it should not impact your self-respect.

If you are not understood, you will be underestimated.

Suppose, you are an employee of a private or public sector, and you think that, I can survive without taking the ownership of my assignments, I get salary equivalent to those persons who take the ownership of the task. What is the difference? Difference is …. One is master of the task, he is expert, owner, other is slave, and he shirks the work. He cannot generate confidence in his life, no self-respect; he will feel low and jealous at every point of time, he is cowardice, he cannot face the challenges. He cannot acquire true happiness in his life. No respect, no confidence, no happiness…. What kind of life it is?

One point of time … people hankers for respect and honor, which can be satisfied by taking the honest ownership and responsibility of your prescribed duty without being pompous and arrogant.
To get honor, be the owner of your body, mind, senses and activities. There is no other way.