Friday 1 May 2015

Be owner to get honor

Everyone in this world wants to be respected. But very few persons get this fortune. Only countable persons get pure respect and honor. Rest people live the life of disrespect. But how to get respect..?

Simply, be owner, be the master of something important in your life, and you will get respect. What do I mean to be owner here? Here, owner does not mean that you must be owner of a company, owner of a big business or owner of some estate …. No... This is not real ownership. Many persons have it; still they live a life of disrespect. This kind of material accumulation may make you pompous and arrogant. 

An arrogant person never gets respect from anyone.

No matter what position you are holding, no matter what work you are doing, take the ownership of that, take 100% responsibility and accountability for that. This is real ownership. In such way, you become master of that, not slave. If you do not have the ownership of your activities and assignments, you are slave, and slaves never get respect. Slaves are treated as slave. Masters are treated as master. This is the way, you get self-respect, and respect from others as well. Be sure that self-respect is more important than respect from others. Many times you may be misunderstood, but it should not impact your self-respect.

If you are not understood, you will be underestimated.

Suppose, you are an employee of a private or public sector, and you think that, I can survive without taking the ownership of my assignments, I get salary equivalent to those persons who take the ownership of the task. What is the difference? Difference is …. One is master of the task, he is expert, owner, other is slave, and he shirks the work. He cannot generate confidence in his life, no self-respect; he will feel low and jealous at every point of time, he is cowardice, he cannot face the challenges. He cannot acquire true happiness in his life. No respect, no confidence, no happiness…. What kind of life it is?

One point of time … people hankers for respect and honor, which can be satisfied by taking the honest ownership and responsibility of your prescribed duty without being pompous and arrogant.
To get honor, be the owner of your body, mind, senses and activities. There is no other way.


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