Do not Beg for Sympathy, Win the Situation

Ups and downs in the life are temporary and transitory. That is the pattern of the life. Even for sustaining our life, we need to inhale and exhale the oxygen. Holding our breath either outside or inside for a long can snatch our life. Similarly, only pleasure or distress in our life make our life unresponsiveness. Losing interest in the life is equivalent to demise. Vicissitude of our life makes our life worth living. Like, day and night has equal importance in our life. We work in day and sleep in the night. If we do not slumber, we become lunatic. And a lunatic life is a burden on the earth. The person who is not aware about this truth, then they enjoy in their good time, but they lose their curiosity of life in their breakdown. They forget that, if God close one path, at the same time, He opens multiple opportunities. The wise recognizes those, and the ignorant keep attached with the memories of the bad days. The person who learns not to be attached either with up time or down time, in sooth; they know how to leave their life stress free.

Majority of people, even they are suffering from small and negligible ailments like, cough, headache etc or confront small setbacks in their life. They will make sure all of their relatives, friends know that. No matter, their relatives are staying close in the same city or not. They will definitely bother them. We know that, what the problems are occurring with us, we are the best person to surmount it by putting our intelligence. Bothering others for the negligence ailments or setbacks, are for seeking the sympathy.

No matter, how much prosperity, knowledge, luxuriant, fame etc. you have, still you are begging for your recognition, begging for sympathy; means you are no better than a street beggar. Difference is --- they are begging for their survival, you are begging for your recognition. By definition, who begs is called beggar.

Do not be a beggar, be a bigger person from inside. The wise and successful person, do not beg for the sympathy on their temporary setbacks, rather they win the situation. Begging for sympathy is the herald of weakness and futile, fighting back with the situation is the insignia of success and strength. Bruce Lee rightly said --- “Do not pray for an easy life. Pray for the strength to endure the difficult one.”