Are you living with your friend or foe ?

 The influence of our milieu plays a prominent role in building our genre and personality. It helps us to program our mind. In our childhood or teenage, we are not well versed in understanding about good or bad, action or inaction. What we get from the environment or family, our  immature mind adopts that. This adoption creates a base on which our future is going to stand.  If it is merely an influence of the environment, it can be corrected by changing the environment, or developing the knowledge by self-effort to mold the life of our choice.

What the society or family teaches us is not always correct or may not be suitable for our spirit and material nature. Everyone has taken birth with his distinct material nature, and have the equivalent potential to blossom in his own material nature. Not living with own material nature invites the miseries and unhappiness in our life. In this case, if you are not living your life according to your material nature and innate quality, you are living an unanimated life. You are living your life with enemy by acquiring others material nature. The moment you recognize your true material nature and innate quality, you get confidence to  live your life according to your material nature without worrying about temporary setbacks, means, you live with your friend.

You can change your profession, if you do not match to your material nature, and get the profession and life of your choice. But, one thing that is very crucial to make our friend to lead a happy and successful life, that is our mind. If our mind is thinking and acting the way we want, it is our friend, else worst foe.

If your brain is thinking negative, hatred, jealous, envious, despises, vile, pompousness, fabricating lie etc, your mind is not in your control, hence you are living with your deadly enemy. Sooner or later, you will be deceived. If your mind thinks positive, knowledge, love, affection, all well-being etc. your mind is under your control and want to help you to thrive in your life. The bridled mind becomes the cause of elevation, and the unbridled mind becomes the reason of decadent.

No one can do any harm to anyone more than his own mind. The achievements and its sustainability are the result of the best friend, the mind. You can change the location, you can change your profession, you can change your environment, but, if you failed to change your mind set up, you cannot be happy anywhere.