Anger poisons our system. Everyone knows that anger is not good. It worsens the situation. It makes us more animal than human. Generally, we are suggested to control your anger. But, the anger cannot be controlled by simply knowing it. Controlling anger means, there is anger within you and disrupting your system. There is not a button of anger somewhere, where you can switch on or off. If something does not go the way you want, you get angry. When someone challenges your thought and ideas, you get angry.
You look for recognition for everything you do and think. If you do not get it, or someone opposes it, you get angry. If you are not able to compete with someone, you get frustrated. Frustration looks for an opportunity to get it released, and whenever it gets an opportunity, it takes a shape of anger and creates many chemical and emotional problems inside you.
Suppression paralyzes our lives, whether it is our skills, knowledge and talent or frustration and anger. This cannot be suppressed for a long time. We have to channelize it.
Anger is energy. The same energy can be used in both construction and destruction. When we do not take the work of our energy constructively, it works for destruction by default.
People with less knowledge, talents, skill, understanding, and maturity are more prone to anger. The people with less accomplishment demonstrate more anger and arrogance than the people with high accomplishments. If you have anger, you have to release it; otherwise, it will poison and kill you. Have you observed people throwing dead stuff in their anger? In anger, you can lift even heavier objects which cannot be lifted in normal condition. It releases power. But, in your anger, mostly, you do the destructive things only. The anger informs the hidden power within. The same power of the anger can be used for the bigger accomplishments by giving it a right direction.
Anger is not a curse if you could convert your anger into accomplishments. You perform something with your hard work and it goes unnoticed, you get angry. Anger is the indication that you are made to perform something bigger than what you are today. If you have respect for you, convert you anger energy into the fabulous achievements, not as means of your destruction.
Direct your anger energy towards something significant before it destroys you. The anger tells you to acknowledge your hidden energy and give an appropriate direction. The people who do not have any concrete purpose and goal in their life, they are more prone to anger and frustration. Do not allow the domination of anger and frustration in your life; rather channelize this energy in setting some proper goal and purpose of your life.
The same poison is used in medicine to save a life, and the same can be used to take someone`s life. If the anger is a poison, use this poison judicially to make it a life-saving medicine.
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