What You Really Want and Why?

 The meaning of success is not the common for everyone. It differs person to person. Success is something you get, what you wanted to get without violating others right. Success can be at various level, viz. physical level, mental level, spiritual level, material level etc. The true success means the complete enjoyment, the ecstasy. If your body, heart and mind are responding positively by achieving your desire is the real success. Every success and failure comes with the subsequent reaction. It is necessary to monitor what exactly you want and make a note of that. You can make a long list of your desires. The wise always prioritize their desires.

If you are clear what you want and how much you want, then it is doddle for the mind to find how to get it. You can collect all the means and start your journey towards your achievements. If you are genuine and honest in your pursuit, you can become genius in your profession. No matter what your desire is, you can achieve that. You can feel proud and bask in glory on your achievements. But it is also observed that the success of an individual can become one of the primal causes of the unhappiness. For an example, you wanted to get married with a girl of your choice, and after your effort, your got married with the desired one, this is the success for you. Later, if you are finding tough to sustain your marriage, this is the reaction of your marriage. This cannot be called a true success. You are not getting happiness here; you are wasting your time in unbidden anxiety, stress and tension.

What went wrong here?

Everything is looking good here, you got the clarity what you wanted, you found the way how to get it. You put all your diligent effort and energy. But you forgot to check your why clause. Why you wanted it and its possible reaction or side-effect. Why you have taken this action. Is it really going to provide the exact feeling what you always wanted or its reaction has the possibility to provide the feeling which you never wanted?  It is very important to make a proper priority and sequence to achieve your desired goal.

What ------- Why --------- How ----------- Achievement

You may be punished if you are not clear why you want, whatever you want. Alfred Nobel, the inventor of detonator, was very clear on what he wanted and he achieved it. He became very happy on his success. But his success could not provide the happiness to him for a long. When he analyzed the why clause and its possible reaction, he was shocked. The detonator could be very pernicious for the world, if it goes in wrong hand. On mea culpa atonement, he dedicated his money towards the positive development in science and technology. On the interest amount of his deposited money is given as Noble Prize every year to the persons for the extraordinary contribution in the field of science and technology.

Beware! You may get what you want. That is why, be clear with why clause as well. The knowledge of the why clause of your desire dispels all the doubts of the reaction of your achievements.