You Needn`t to be Someone, Just be Yourself to Enjoy

 Everybody in this world experiences the same thing differently. When we talk to someone, we expect from that person to think like us or at least endorse our thought. If the person or a group is not thinking like us or not behaving like us or not endorsing our belief systems or not agreeing on our points; then we start berating that person or group. We forget that, every single person has different vantage point. It is not necessary for someone to think or act like you. We are entitled to be disagreeing on certain points; the same is applicable on others as well. Although, two persons have the same goal yet they differ in their approach according to their material nature, conviction and convenience of thinking. Here paradox may occur. When someone start thinking, acting and behaving like us and have the same goal and the same approach, the competition takes place at very extreme level. And with the competitions, jealous, hatred, despise, frustration, irritation etc. occurs. These are self-destructive foe hidden in human`s sense, heart, mind and intelligence, which blocks the path of right thinking. In this way we invite wrath into our life. In these scenarios, the healthy competition is not possible. An unhealthy competition is very hazardous. It distracts our thought process. And spiritually, we start deteriorating. A spiritually fallen person cannot be happy, no matter how much luxuriant he possesses or how much material achievement he has consummated. If you do not have the freedom of thought and expression, then you are still living in slavery.

  

In fact, we want the monopoly and patent of our thought. When comparison starts, we manipulate our thoughts. We digress from our natural thought. We drop our uniqueness. We load ourselves with arrogance. Our though adopt the influence of others; we do not remain the same, what we should be. We lose the track of the self-realization and self-confront. We start thinking and discerning about others more than ourselves. Here we lost completely. Comparison word is very treacherous. Comparison takes place between two similar things. We all are take birth as unique entity, then where the matter of comparison is?

In around 6-7 million population of the world, we cannot find two exactly the same person in appearance. There would be certainly some differences. This is the matter of externally comparison. The interior matter of the individual is quite different and complex. The thought, knowledge, experience, confidence, vision etc. of one person is not going to match with other person. God has created every individual with uniqueness to experience the world differently and uniquely. We do the mistake to try to be someone else. We cannot enjoy the world by being someone. The only one way to experience the eternal ecstasy is, to be the true self and original, the way God has created us. Enjoy to the fullest what you already possessing (health, wealth, knowledge, education, family, position etc.) without coveting which belongs to others.