Accept the Change, Enjoy it

Nothing is permanent, but change. This is the reality, this is the truth. And not accepting the truth causes miseries in our life. Change makes the life move. The changes make us think, changes make us react, and changes make us to deal with different kind of situation of life to attain the maturity and wisdom. Every change has its own importance. The way, changes in the weather have its own importance on ecology, whether we like it or not, it takes place. Better to accept it, embrace it and enjoy it.

You want pleasure in your life, not pain. You want to make the pleasure permanent. But there is no existence of pleasure without pain. You cannot enjoy pleasure without knowing the pain. You cannot understand and enjoy the taste of success without understanding the taste of failure. You become stagnant without changes. Stagnant means death, no life.

You frighten change. You do not want to become old; you do not want to see your wrinkled skin, you want to be ever young, ever attractive. That is not possible, you have to go every phase of this change. And every phase is important to understand the existence and its philosophy. Do not frighten, accept it, and search the meaning in it. When you get the meaning, you enjoy every change.

Do not stick with the past and cry over it, be dynamic, live in the moment. This moment will also be lost in the next moment. It had better experience it vividly.

The happiest person in the world is happy not because there is no change in his life or there is no pain in his life, or there is no failure in his life, or no downtime in his life. He is happy, because he has accepted the truth; he has accepted his life whole-heartily.

Any kind of weakness causes suffering

Suffering of any kind is not a nature design. We suffer in our life due to our weakness. Weakness may be of different kinds. You may have physical weakness, mental weakness, intellectual weakness, understanding weakness, spiritual weakness, honesty weakness, sincerity weakness, comparison weakness etc.

Any kind of weakness causes suffering in your life. The degree of suffering differs as per the kind of weakness you have.

If you want a suffer-free life, then you need to understand what kind of weakness you possess now.  Any kind of frustration, irritation and anguish indicate that you are suffering. And these are due to some weakness. Humans are not here to have suffering of any kind. Humans are here to have success in his mission, to be happy and knowing the self. Without wasting your time, be honest and note down all kinds of weakness, you think you have.

You will surprise to know that many weaknesses which cause you suffering in your life will go away just by getting the awareness about that weakness. For an illustration, if you get a frustration, immediately ask yourself, why are you frustrated? Most of the time, you will not find any reason of your frustration, if your brain does not find any reason, then you will be normal. If your brain finds some logical reason to be frustrated, then instruct your mind to focus on the solution not on the problem. By doing this, your understanding weakness and intellectual weakness will vanish, because, now you understand the problem and using your intellect to find the solution. And human brain is designed in such a way that on whatever it focuses, it finds the definite way out.

Emotional weakness is very prevalent. The person who is suffering from this weakness, expect more from others. Just reduce your expectation from others, and you focus on your duty. This weakness will slowly go away. When you accept that you are here to give something to others not to take, your body and mind starts behaving in such a way, then you would have no option but to shed off all the weakness of your life. Once you succeed in doing so, your suffering will go away and you will be happy and rejuvenated.

Some of things happen in your life which cannot be repaired, in that case, accept it. When you accept it, your fear of that weakness will vanish. You say, “I accept it, I am like that, but I will not suffer due to one factor of my life, I have many reasons to be happy and rejoice, I am here not to suffer but to success”.