Thursday 27 June 2013

Excuse : A deadly disease

 Excuse is a very pernicious disease. The treatment of this disease is not so easy also. No matter how much talent, skill, potential, power, and energy you have, you can achieve nothing significant in your life, if you are suffering from the disease known as excuse. It is the skill killer. It is the big obstructer of your success in your life. Making excuse of not doing any work looks very easy, and once you form this habit, you promptly and frequently use that. We can understand the difference between the success and futile person or the potential to be success and failure in his life, by the amount of his excuses and alibis. The people with excuses never try anything new in their life. Before taking any assignment, they find plenty of logic, why this assignment or plan will fail. They become expert enough to garner all the information and logic why this will fail. Even, without listening anything, they start speaking and fabricating the matter for excuses to get the failure in the particular pursuits. They live the life of lack of commitment. They do not want to take the responsibility of anything happening or going to take place in future. They remain ready for the taking the credit, if anything happens well. The person, who cannot take the responsibility of the action and result thereof, cannot thrive in his life, cannot be big achievers, and cannot claim a grand success in his life on his own. The brain is not negative or positive; it is up to us how we are using it. In  both the cases, our mind find the logic to prove it why and how you can accomplish this, in this contrast, when you make excuse, your mind find the logic why and how you cannot accomplish that.
 A successful person, never form a habit of making excuse, whatever the situation occurs in his life. He takes the assignment, make goal in his life to achieve, and find all the reason and logic why and how he can accomplish that. The futile person, who looks at the present situation, and declare himself, he cannot do this, because, lot of stuff like this has gone through failure phases, so this pursuit also would be. If someone put this kind of statement to his mind, although he starts his pursuit, yet he will not put his whole heart into it, he will use his partial energy and power to achieve it, hence failure is guaranteed. Nothing can be achieved half-heartedly. Might be not consciously, but unconsciously, he will getting the signal from the mind that why you are trying this, you will be getting debacle in this. Sooner or later, he will quit and again, will give the reason and logic why it got failed, and put the alibi on others. Everyone wants to have a grand success in his life, but the contradiction in the life makes them to recede from the success. If those persons get whatever wanted to get in his life with the help of others or by some other means; in this scenario, they can neither handle the success nor get the happiness, they would only accumulate ego, which is again a major cause for a person to plummet. The contradictory life, never help anyone to reach the acme of anyone`s profession. Prevent yourselves from the disease known as excuse.

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