Whenever you say I am not responsible: “Someone else is responsible of my situation, I would have in better position, but I am struggling due to so and so persons.” Remember: Whenever you pass the responsibility of your life to someone, you transfer the power and ownership of your life to that person; you provide an opportunity for that person to drive your life. No one wants it, everyone wants to be powerful. Yes, for that, you have to take the responsibility of your life, only then you can decide to get in the driving seat of your life. Be an expert and drive the vehicle of the life cautiously to achieve your set destination.
The seed of the success sprouts on taking the responsibility of the failure, and working on getting the causes and its obliteration. Garner the courage to take the new responsibility. Do not fear from the failure. In the beginning, failure in any pursuit is quite natural. Any failure is not an end; it is a speed breaker to check the temperament for the impending success. The person, who cannot handle the failure, cannot handle the success as well. An indecorous handling of success or failure creates the miseries in the life. The failure occurs in the dearth of preparation. Take the responsibly on your shoulder, and put more effort on the preparation for the success. Every success requires an equivalent preparation and effort. Failure of the endeavor is the failure of the preparation and right direction. On getting the failure, ponder, where you made a mistake in your preparation, was your effort was equivalent to the desired success, find out those, and start working to get rid of those weaknesses and factors which are the stumbling block of your success.